All heterosexual men are divided into two groups: those who consider themselves unsurpassed masters in bed, behave too confidently and sometimes disrespectfully, and those who are ready to listen to girls and satisfy them first of all. 

Our list of 10 wishes of women in bed, we compiled for the second group. This is his target audience. But for the most part, it will come in handy for those who are simply delighted with their libido and themselves in general. You can think as much as you like that the ladies are having a great time with you in bed, but in fact, only you (from yourself) get high. We hope someday your girlfriend will have the courage to tell you what she really wants from you. In the meantime, check out our list. There will definitely be something that she is embarrassed to tell you about.

1. Ask questions

Spontaneous and unconditional sex is ideal only in the movies: a couple gets to know each other and immediately guesses how to please each other. It's not like that in life. But there is nothing to be ashamed of. Ask your girlfriend what she would like you to do and you will immediately see how turned on she is.

2. Turn on the music

It's a great way to add some mood, get rid of the awkward silence and funny sounds that are inevitable during sex (slap lovers, we're talking about you). If you are too lazy to make your own playlist, go to Spotify, which is now available in Russia. Everything is taken care of for you there.

3. Watch out for hints

Remember, in Friends, Monica told Chandler where her seven erogenous zones were? Everyone has them, but not the fact that they are in the same place as Monica. Therefore, mentally track how the girl's body reacts to your actions. When you reach the erogenous zones, she will start to squirm or do something similar. In any case, you will understand that you have found what you were looking for.

4. Pick up girls

Many will feel like the heroines of beautiful films about love with sensual sex scenes and will definitely appreciate your initiative. There is always a chance that someone will not like it. Then get ready for the squeals of your beloved with requests to let go and return her to her place. We advise you to write off this not an unsuccessful experiment. But the likelihood that such an adventure will fail is small.

5. Change location

Even not the most successful sex can bring a lot of impressions and pleasure if it happens in an unusual place. You don't have to do it in the elevator, just move to the kitchen table or in the shower (although this is a slippery business). And if you live not alone, rent a hotel. You will feel like you are on vacation.

6. Check your surroundings

Periodically think about whether the girl likes everything. You can even unobtrusively ask about it a couple of times for sex. No one's ardor will cool such a thing. Few things can be sexier than a caring and conscious man.

7. Experiment with poses

If your lady saddles you for the 70th time, you are unlikely to get new impressions. And you won’t learn anything new about your preferences and each other’s bodies. But if you change your posture - anything can happen. It is not necessary to study the Kama Sutra. Just try to have some fun in the Flatiron, Swing and Ballerina positions. If anything, in the Kamasutra these are positions number 95, 96 and 130.

8. Compliment

Let's be honest, naked - we are as vulnerable as possible, even if we are confident in the attractiveness of our body. Therefore, it would be nice to cheer up your girlfriend. Praises for five minutes do not need to start, it will only tire and add awkwardness. Just whisper in her ear that she looks great and turns you on. So you yourself will be more aroused, and allow her to behave more relaxedly.

9. Bring your toys

Even if you are a conservative, at least for once forget your prejudices. Sex toys really improve the quality of sex, making it much more exciting. Otherwise, so many gadgets simply would not have been invented as unnecessary. The main thing is to find the device that suits both of you. If anything, almost all girls are divided into lovers of a vibrator-bullet and fans of anal plugs. We advise you to discuss with your lady which team she is on. The conversation promises to be fun.

10. Have Dirty Talk 

We are not talking about Jason Derulo's song, but about dirty and vulgar talk in bed. There are almost no pros in this art, so it's okay if vulgar words make you laugh. To begin with, try to pronounce everything that you experience from the touch of a partner, and describe his actions. Most importantly, do not follow the example of the hero of the song Dirty Talk. Then it will fail for sure.