There are things that women don't confess, or dare not confess to their partner : for fear of looking stupid, of hurting him, or of seeming to ask too much. However, these tips would be very valuable to some men, who are just waiting to improve and fill their partner with desire!
Here are 11 things many women wish men did MUCH more often... Can you think of any more?
Of course, there are times women also like it when things happen in the heat of the moment, spontaneously and quickly. Sometimes love doesn't wait, and both partners burn so much desire that they want to get down to business right away, without further ado. But sometimes we have the whole night ahead of us, so why would you want to rush? You can also let the temperature rise little by little, take the time to undress her gently, caress her, explore her body, go through different foreplay... Then, when neither you nor she can wait any longer, start slowly and languidly, before picking up the pace. This conditioning and the expectation it can cause can generate a lot of pleasure, and play a key role in the quality of your lovemaking!
Again, you should first find out what she likes. Not every woman likes this, and even if she does there may be days when she prefers more gentleness. The key is above all communication, in order to avoid misunderstandings! Some women like to have their hair pulled a little in the heat of the moment, to be dominated, to have their neck or earlobes bitten, to be taken hard, to feel your power in the embrace… Or even to go much more far. Of course, we must not confuse a certain brutality engendered by the fire of passion, with something fundamentally unpleasant: pulling the hair does not mean tearing it out by handfuls either! In short, communicate, ask her if she wants to, and above all,
The worst love killer is when you have to plan everything you're going to do. Worse still, when you always have the same routine, like a circus number learned by heart that you perform identically in a perfectly codified way... it quickly loses its interest and its intensity, and you both already know how to what to expect before you even start. Maybe you can do it spontaneously, at an unexpected time, in an unusual place, in a totally unpredictable way? It will be very exciting for both of you.
They say that communication is the key to a romantic relationship, but the same is true for sex in general. If you like what she does, let her know! Likewise, if you don't like something, tell him or explain how it can be improved: don't be afraid to tell him about it. You like her, you have to learn what pleases the other and you don't have the science infused. When you try new things, it can be a success or a failure: but if you don't talk about it, there's no way of knowing… Just like men, women also like to be encouraged. Guide it, you will have everything to gain!
The erogenous zones are distributed all over the body, and not just where you might think at first glance! Besides the lips, neck, and genitals, there are other unexpected places that can be just as (or even more) sensitive. And these places can be different and vary enormously depending on the individual! That's why you shouldn't hesitate to explore her body, to find the places that will make her react the most. There are parts on a woman's body, in addition to the breasts and the vagina: all you need is a little imagination. Soles of the feet, wrists, stomach, hollow of the ears, lower back, elbow... So many places to explore!
Women appreciate when a man knows how to be confident, in the bedroom (or elsewhere). This does not mean that you always have to hold the reins every time, on the contrary, many like to direct the antics too, and it is of course extremely pleasant. But if you let her do everything every time or she's the one who tells you what to do every time, she might get bored... Don't be shy, and get started!
As we said, the worst thing about sex is still to lock yourself into a routine. Variety, imagination and instinct are the most important qualities to have when it comes to sex — even more important than the physical “performances” that obsess over so many men! Even if some things seem to have worked, they will lose their effectiveness and interest for both of you if you repeat them over and over again each time. Suggest new things, offer to try slightly new positions or contexts, think outside the box...
It's something that's been said and repeated so often that you wonder why you even have to talk about it…and yet it's a fact: many men knowingly or unknowingly neglect foreplay. To believe that they are a kind of obligatory passage to "prepare the ground" and arrive at the interesting part. However, foreplay is an integral part of the sexual act, and plays a crucial importance for the future! They are not only used to prepare, but also to increase the pleasure, and as such allow you to bring your companion even further into ecstasy. In short, for foreplay, better too much than not enough!
Women appreciate that we confide in them... but talking to her about your fantasies has a double interest, because it allows her both to get to know you better, but also to give her the keys to having a better effect on you. ! Do not hesitate to entrust her with the unacknowledged fantasies that you would like to realize, who knows... maybe she has the same ones as you! Don't be ashamed to talk about it, you might just discover whole new perspectives on erotica...
A woman will always like to be complimented, but this is all the more true during love! Point out to her what you like about her, even though she is offered to you and you have her body revealed before your eyes: talk to her about her lips, her legs, her buttocks... Say- her what you find beautiful in her, especially if she is a bit shy or lacks confidence and self-assurance! Compliments are a great way to put her at ease and have a comfortable time, free from any little annoyances she might have been keeping in mind. Similarly, as a general rule, you can also talk to her, comment on what you see... with raw, poetic or even daring words depending on what she likes: this also brings its share of emotion as well as an increased erotic dimension. !
Some women have very specific fantasies, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to fulfill a few of them! Talk about it with her: disguises, erotic games, domination/submission relationship, special places, bondage, the list is long. The important thing is to keep an open mind, and never judge the other person's fantasies, just as you wouldn't want them to laugh at yours. You don't have to accept everything, and neither does she… But with a little curiosity and a spirit of adventure, you could discover many things! Either way, it will end up enriching your sex life.
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